Confucious said,
"At fifteen, I aspired to learning.
At thirty, I established my stand.
At forthy, I had not delusions.
At fifty, I knew my destiny.
At sixty, I knew truth in all I heard.
At seventy, I could follow the wishes of my heart without doing wrong.
(the Analects of Confucius, Chapter2, Verse 4)
Link to Confucious.org
What attracts my attention in terms of meditation is the last part, "I could follow the wishes of my heart without doing wrong." This is the exact description of ultimate emotion regulation that can be achieved by mindfulness meditation.
As a brain imaging study revealed that one of main benefits of mindfulness meditation is emotion regulation. Practicing mindfulness meditation may enhance the capacity to regulate people's emotion. (
How and what is mindfulness meditation good?)
Our old brain just follows one principle: avoid and approach. There is no right or wrong in this principle. It is our new brain that decides which is wrong or good. There are two ways the new brain control the old brain: suppression and regulation.
Emotion suppresion is very different from emotion regulation. Suppresion is the situation when the wishes of one's heart are contradictory to one's moral value or other social situations. It is after the old brain activates desires for the objects, when the new brain (dorsal part of medial prefrontal cortex) suppresses the desire.
Regulation is the situation when the wishes of one's heart are consistent with one's moral values or other social situations. It is before the old brain activates desires for the objects when the new brain (ventral part of medial prefrontal cortex) regulates the desire.
As you may guess, emotion regulation is much more comfortable and mentally beneficial than emotion suppression.
Confucious said the status can be achieved at the age of seventy. The age of seventy is a simbolic description such that being seventy does not guarantee the capacity of emotional reguation. It can be achieved from mental training such as mindfulness meditation.
Confucius (551 BCE – 479 BCE) was an esteemed Chinese thinker and social philosopher. The quote above is one of his teachings in the Analects of Confucius (論語), a collection of "brief aphoristic fragments", which was compiled many years after his death. (
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